Have you ever wondered why things just never seem to be going your way? Why you seem to be stuck in a cycle of negativity? And you can’t deal with how this is impacting your growth as a woman and entrepreneur? Today we look at four things you can start implementing today to raise your positive vibrations and to step into the person you have always dreamed of being.
Yesterday we had an amazing chat in our Mommies Gone Wild Facebook group. If you missed it, these were the big takeaways:
#1: Try to “be” instead of waiting to “have”
Instead of saying “once I have __________, I’ll be able to do ____________ and then I will be ____________”,
you should try saying “who can I be now, what can I do now in order to have _____________?”.
You see, it’s all about becoming aware of your inner self-talk – it’s seriously limiting your progress and it is probably the biggest reason why you haven’t achieved all your wildest dreams.
For example, one thing I used to keep saying to myself was:
“When I have time, I will be able to exercise and then I will lose weight”.
Ah hello Kirsten, will you really ever have more time if you keep going about life the way you always do?
So now I say to my self, “who can I be now and what can I do now to be more productive and to have more time for me to exercise??”.
This shift has helped me to dial in on what it is I really need to do and the role that I need to step into to get what I really want. And this may be a silly example, but if you take it seriously and you implement it into every facet of your life, your relationships, your business, your health – there’s no doubt in my mind you will be successful and get what you deeply desire.
#2: Overwhelmingly grateful to “call” abundance into your life
Practice being overwhelmingly grateful for what you have now in order to attract more abundance into every area of your life in the future.
There is no doubt in my my mind that positive vibrations attract more positivity. Think about when something went wrong for you first thing in the morning one day… the whole day seemed to go wrong didn’t it? That’s probably because your frustration, anger and negative vibe attracted more negative and every part of the day just seemed more negative (even if it really wasn’t). Am I right?
One of the things I have been doing lately is thinking about every little thing that I am grateful for the minute I open my eyes in the morning. I literally voice out loud that I am so grateful for the new day, grateful for opening my eyes and still being alive. I am grateful for the warm bed that I have just woken up in. Grateful for my job and the money it provides me (even though I can’t wait to leave, it is serving me in this chapter of my life).
When you practice doing this every day, you have no option but to get out of bed with a higher, positive vibration that just screams to the universe “BRING MORE POSITIVITY MY WAY!”.
If you don’t believe me, try it!
#3: Share your story to grow your self-confidence
Don’t worry my dear strategy-loving friends! I have a few awesome tools I want you to try out this week to help boost your overall online presence, and attract more potential customers your way (whether you need online traffic or foot traffic to your local business).
#3: Get vulnerable to build confidence in yourself and establish your brand
Remember that people don’t really do window shopping anymore. They prefer to see and experience services and products online in the safety of their anonymity before they decide to walk through your shop doors.
So try to show them a little bit about who you are and what you do so that they can get to know and like you before they decide to trust you with their time and money.
Do this by building your presence on Instagram stories… don’t be scared to take a 15 second video of yourself going about your day. Some of the simplest activities of your day are interesting to your potential customers and show what type of person you are. These Insta Story videos only last 24 hours before they disappear and, if you want, you can practice recording them and don’t have to post them.
I used to cringe every time I hit “post” not so long ago. Now, I love talking to my phone! My confidence has gone through the roof and I feel like I have permission to be me.
Super tip alert** Use the “Subtle” filter to brighten your face and no one will know!
#4: Get the professional edge with all your graphics to attract more customers
To create stunning graphics that are super professional and grab your potential customers attention – you can use Canva.com. This is a free graphic design platform with hundreds of templates for absolutely any type of graphic or ad that you need to create. It is literally plug and play, and you can create awesome Facebook, Instagram, Email (and more) images and graphics within minutes without being Mrs Artsy.
Be sure to check it out! It will just give you that extra edge that others in your niche don’t have.
If you aren’t already in our Facebook Community, come on over and join us! We have weekly chats where we discuss all things mindset, business and digital products.
Remember, if the desire is in your heart, it’s probably a sign that you should go for it.